Guys, please a little forewarning...

Ok, so explain something to me. Where is the Courtesy from guys? We go out to a bar with our friends just to have a good time. We are out dancing, drinking enjoying each other's company and out of nowhere there you guys are surrounding us grinding on us in places you should be buying drinks to get to. Now it's not quite the grinding part that makes a girl uncomfortable, it's the not knowing who's doing the grinding that makes it a little creepy. Is it the old fart that was standing in the corner watching you anxiously to see how far down to the floor you would go before you came back up to shake your ass in his direction? Is it the really nerdy guy that’s kinda sexy that you thought you caught eyeing you earlier? Maybe the Ghetto Fabulous Thug that thinks your pretty fly for a white guy? Or better yet, was it the sweaty, scary, freak with the personality of Ted Bundy? In our heads, we are thinking, chances are its not the sexy nerdy guy, the hot Mc Dreamy guy or even anyone close to it. Those guys aren't usually the ones to sneak up behind you like that forcing you to lean forward to your friend asking her who the hell is behind you, gropping you!!!! See there are several problems with this. One our friends taste may not be that of our own. Two straining to hear the rating of guy behind me from my friend could be miscontstrewed by the loud dance music. She could be telling me if you think Napolean Dynamite is a God he's you man, I on the other hand could hear, Nail him he's a Dynamite God! See how things like that could happen???? Among other potential problems, dancing, drinking, and leaning could lead to falling! Instead, we walk away only to find out that you were cute. Do you know how dissapointing that is for us? So I beg of you have the Courtesy of letting us see who you are before you take it upon yourself to grab us inappropraitly! Let us decide first if we want you too!