The more boys I meet....

The more boys I meet, the more I love my dog! Dogs unlike men, are loyal, love you unconditionally, if trained properly listen to you and what you tell them to do, can sense when something is wrong with you, and most importantly don't judge you. Loyalty is something most men are lacking these days.... big time! Guys seem to have a funny way of wanting you one minute and not the next and then 20 mins later want you again? Help me understand that one? Crystal & I have started to learn a lot lately.... pay attention boys... Girls rarely just say exactly what they are feeling but if you have gotten to know a girl well enough you can read in between the words she speaks and hear what she is really saying... all you have to do is listen! If a girl isn't smiling nearly as much that day or isn't calling or texting you like normal.... sense this.... something is wrong! It might be you or it could actually be something else but the fact you neglect to acknowledge her change in behavior makes her feel unwanted and unacknowledged and then you become part of the problem. Men stop judging! You make an assumption based on nothing.... if you haven't asked a girl what she is thinking or taken the time to get to know what is in her heart and why she is the way she is.... don't assume! Don't judge! A girl that can appear strong may be the girl who is as soft as a sponge! You don't know unless you ask or take the time to listen! So be aware about what you say.... it doesn't matter if you knew her years ago.... you don't know her now... it doesn't matter what you think you know.... you know nothing if you haven't asked and really truly listened! Guys get it together! If you say your gonna call, call. When you do finally call.... talk about something other than yourself! You either care all the time or none of the time... its gotta be an all or nothing situation! Seriously... 2 years of refusing to date anyone and hell refusing to even kiss someone was enough time for me to figure out.... Men are clueless.... but the older I get the more I realize.... clueless doesn't even begin to describe it! Get it together!