He's just not into you!

Great book, AMAZING MOVIE! Ya know, I myself want to elaborate on this whole he’s just not into you thing. If you have heard this, he’s just not into you….

From your friends:

-The right guy will never make you cry: Ok, dead give away… All men good, bad, horrible, AMAZING men will make a woman cry. Guys’ regardless of how great they are clueless and just straight up stupid sometimes…. Good men just don’t make you cry all the time so when your friends say this, what she is really saying is, he has made you cry too many times and he doesn't care about you. Cut him loose!

-Maybe his phone isn’t working/Maybe he lost his phone: Really? This is 2009 no one goes more than a day with out a cell phone. How long could you go with out your phone? Think about it…. This is not the early 90's.... We don't have to fight people in our households for the landline, we don't have to scrounge for change to use the pay phone, there is a new epidemic of smart phones. Especially if this is a PDA that is involved. Everyone syncs their phones to their computers and hell I even sync mine to my email. I can access my phone with out even having my phone on me.... If I lost my phone and there was a guy worth my time.... I would find a way to call....

-Maybe he’s just super busy: Now, I have been super busy but I still make time for a special guy…. If you were a special girl to him, he would find the time even just to say hello. The only excuse that would be acceptable is if he was helping children in a 3rd world country or a million miles out to sea, saving whales & dolphins. Let’s face it…. A guy that busy doesn’t date so there are no excuses. Even if you were traveling all day, stuck in a million meetings, had a wedding weekend(which as we all know is crammed full of activities and very little personal time to do anything short of going to the bathroom & sleeping) you would find a way to call him or even shoot a text.

-Well maybe you said something that scared him?: Ha! Believe me when I tell you, as long as you haven’t been deemed certifiable by the state or even the county jail, you didn’t say anything to scare him. He probably wasn’t listening as intently as he pretended to be in the first place. If you are any kind of normal you were not discussing your future children's names and planning your wedding... complete with him chained to the alter so he couldn't get away, you probably didn't bust out into tears because he smiled at the waitress or bring a picture of your future house with a picture of him and you photo shopped into the front yard. I am sure your conversations consisted primarily about work, your families, and favorites sports. He caught every other word you were saying because he listens like a man. You didn't scare him.... You should be scared of him.... He's a JERK



Maybe, Maybe, Maybe…. MAYBE HE’S JUST NOT INTO YOU! I am so tired of friends making excuses for men and even I, myself have done it… We have to stop lying to each other and to ourselves!